Find the best way to get a girl to notice you at school. Once you get her attention, don’t be shy to approach the girl else she won’t get attracted to you.
Tired of feeling invisible in front of ladies? Craving attention from all those hot girls or a particular one? And I assume getting jealous of guys, who get all the attention? Don’t worry you too can become the guy who gets noticed by girls and if you really want to know how, then follow the steps and get what you desire but beware this is not as easy as it seems you have to put some effort, make some changes. So, are you ready to be recognized? If yes then read on.
To first get a girl to notice you, you must first notice yourself and by that I mean you must see yourself in the mirror and ask the question “Is this the best me?” if not than do everything in your power to be the best you. When asking the question notice your hair, your clothes and your overall appearance and sense if you feel attracted to yourself and if not then ask yourself “Why not?” And when you are utterly at your best then you will feel attracted to yourself and so will the women around you and that’s because you noticed yourself first. Now let me explain the how the best version of you looks. First is that he is showered and then he is well groomed, have great hair, smells nice, is wearing decent clothes and have a great posture to look at. Now you have to become the man I just described and believe me it’s not hard to be that man.
- Take Shower for instance, is it so hard to take a shower once a day. At least have enough respect for yourself to take one shower a day as it helps you to appear clean and keep you from stinking.
- Being well groomed means to wash your face before going out, have enough decency to cut your nails and remove the dirt from under them while you are at it. Taking care of your appearance shouldn’t be that hard.
- Find cologne that will make girl come near you, apply a deodorant but not the strong kind a light smelling deodorant will do just fine. When you smell good it makes a woman swoon for you.
- Style your hair properly before going out; use some hair gel and if not then at least have some decency to comb your hair properly.
- When it comes to clothes wear something that is comfortable and yet looks good. Don’t go out in sweat pant just because they are comfortable. Pay some attention to what you wear in public.
- And never slouch or stand like a beggar instead stand straight and walk nice as it show what a great posture you have and it present you as a confident person.
Stand Out literally means standing out in the crowd. I know we have been taught never to be the odd man out but in this situation and when it comes to girls the odd man is the first one to get noticed whether it is in a good way or bad that depends on the situation. Well you have to be the odd man in a good way because if you don’t stand out and act like everyone else does then, how would the girls notice you? Or do you just want to be another brick in the wall? If not then there are number of ways you can stand out, and well I don’t always recommend goggles and hats but if you look good in them, then do it but there are lots of ways to stand out and dresses and accessories are just one fast way to get noticed. So get a nice jacket, one with lots of button, zippers, and what not. Get cool shirts and jeans specially the shirts with cool messages on them as they tend to be more noticeable. Dress like a professional if you want. Get shoes, accessories that would stand out like watches, rings, scarves, etc. You can do almost anything to standout just use your imagination to get a girl to notice you.
Owning yourself is another way of standing out of the crowd and make a girl to notice you. In this phase you have to get yourself on centre stage as that is where you will be more visible and people including women will notice you. You can do this either by being the smart guy or by being the witty guy and sometimes the combination of both. You don’t have to go out of your way to get noticed but be present and don’t try to be invisible for example let’s say that you are in a classroom and teacher asks a hard question, now either you can answer the question if you know it or try to be invisible like every other guy in the room. But if you want to get noticed then you should definitely answer the question and if you don’t know the answer then you can display a little sense of humor, either one will make you visible in the class. One of the simple way to own yourself is to stand up straight rather than slouching as everyone nowadays slouch so even as simple as standing up straight will make you more noticeable. So practice standing straight at least 10 minutes a day in front of the mirror. And remember to never shy away from the camera in a manner of speaking.
Confidence looks good on people it may sometimes come off as cockiness but that is better than wussy or scared. No matter how you look or what you wear the most attractive thing about you is and always will be your confidence. To come across as a confident guy in front of girls you must assume that you are the best looking dude in the world and then you must act like it but then again never be over confident. You should be in so much control that it wouldn’t seem that you are rushing or talking too fast or too much as all that says about you is that you are nervous. In fact you must move, gesture and speak slowly and deliberately. You should pause often to listen if anyone else has to say something and ditch the anxious twitches, gestures, laugh, etc. Remember never to break eye contact unless the woman does it first. All these things show that you are a confident guy and you will see more and more woman noticing you every day.
CONTROL YOUR SURROUNDING
To be able to control one’s surrounding is the best way to come across as a confident man. And therefore one must choose the environment he feels the most comfortable in as he will have easy time relaxing there and hence he will appear more confident. And if you don’t choose the environment you feel comfortable in then women will notice that discomfort and you will come off as scared or nervous. A great way to control the surrounding and to get noticed are high fives and glass clinking and stuff like that which shows that you are a fun loving guy who knows everyone and that always project confidence. This not only helps you to show confidence but also builds some confidence in you over time.
Always remember to play to your strengths and not the other way around. And never go to someplace where you feel uncomfortable for example if you feel comfortable in the coffee shops then go there and not in some clubs where you feel completely vulnerable. And if you do have to go to a club then try getting there before time as you will be able to get the feeling for the place and when the time comes you will be able to act confident. No matter where you go you must control your surrounding because if you seem to be having fun in your space or having you own party bubble which seems to be really fun then the women most definitely would want to join in and you will certainly get noticed.
Looking confident is one thing but you must also be attainable. If you don’t look attainable then women might notice you but never approach you and that can be because of the fear of rejection or fear of being unnoticed. No one will understand these fears better than you, so you have to act attainable. In order to achieve that, you have to be engaged in your environment. For example, if a guy is looking on a cell phone screen with headphones then he is signaling the women that he not interested with a do not disturb sign on his head. The simple way to get a girl to notice you is to look attainable and to actively participate in your surrounding like make eye contact and smile at people walking by as this signal says that you are friendly and open to have a conversation. This way you are more likely to get noticed and you might even get approached by some women.
CONTROL YOUR BODY LANGUAGE
This is one of the most important and basic thing but it has a great impact on any conversation we have an is a must to get girls notice you. And I have always said that when you are approaching, your body language speak more than your words as first attraction is always visual. Most men when talking to a woman use submissive, apologetic body language and voice tone which seems as they are begging for woman’s approval and there is nothing more mood killer than a person who begs approval. Instead a person should use body language as a way to convince women of their confidence. First of all seat straight as it project confidence and your stature becomes more attractive. Secondly don’t lean in her space instead lean back, give her some space and when time comes let her come near you this shows respect and it also lets you know how much the woman is interested in you.
TAKE A HINT
Take a hint is the step in which you know if the girl is interested or not and if not then gaze around you, world is full of hot girls maybe someone else is dying to be approached by you. Never take a hint personally because you never know what that person might be going through or if she already has a boyfriend, fiance or a husband. But if you get a hint that a woman is interested in you than you might watch some hot girl come and sit near you or if you make eye contact and the girl doesn’t look away then that is your ‘in’. Now go on get out there and have some fun and remember once you get a girl to notice you than for future reference try to be chivalrous, be a good listener and have a good sense of humor as it will be better for the long run.