Find some of the best techniques to seduce a woman with words. These tips will help you build a romantic chemistry with a woman with some words.
Some people say that seduction is an art form which can only be mastered by few but I say different, I say it’s a trick, a technique which can be perfected if learned and practiced properly. Yes, it’s true that for some people seducing or picking up girls come naturally but those people depend on their looks or their social stature to do so, but what if they are robbed of their good looks and charms, what then? If the playing field is evened then no one would be able to pick up women unless and until you can master the seduction technique of using words. So, here are some techniques you can use to seduce a woman with words.
CREATE SOME POSITIVITY
Positivity is the line that you draw to mark your comfort zone but if you want more you have to give more. So, be confident that even though in a weird situation you can pull through and in order to do that you need to have a positive and friendly attitude. For example, let’s say someone spill a little drink on your clothes, now how you react to this situation will determine what your perception will be in people’s eye and that is very important for a positive attraction to begin with.
Now, if the person who spilled the drink by mistake is apologizing to you then you just say “No worries, happens to everyone” and move on and clean yourself up because this sends out a positive vibe. Secondly if the person doesn’t even know then you can simply make a face behind his back or you can be calm and tell the person about his drink and let it go. Because what you do in this scenario is the way the world is going to perceive you and the women are always watching, in fact sometimes they are the one testing us. So, be careful and always be friendly even with strangers so in the end if someone ask about you then you can rest easy because if you have done everything the right way than you don’t have to worry about what people say behind your back.
BE CALM AND CONFIDENT
For your seduction technique to work you need to maintain your cool and relax. Firstly, don’t get over excited when talking to a woman, I mean, come on you need to be calm and work your magic as smoothly as possible and not jumping up and down with excitement just because a woman is talking to you. And secondly, be confident that you can get the girl even before you see the girl because if you have doubt in your mind then you will be double guessing everything you are saying and that would never work because sometimes you are going to have to say things that doesn’t make sense and then laugh with the girl on yourself by saying “I can’t believe I just said that” or something like that. The best way to project that you are confident while maintaining your calm is to smile and make eye contact with the girl or woman and then take it from there. And lastly, just enjoy being single, able to flirt and more than anything enjoy yourself while seducing because if you are happy you tend to keep people around you happy and everyone is attracted towards genuine laughter.
For the seduction to work you need to notice the woman you are trying seduce carefully. Like, say a woman who is laughing at everything you speak then she is definitely into you unless you are a comedian on a show and then too she might be into you. But a woman who is laughing on only certain things that you say then you might want to take a mental note on what those things are and then try to work your way up by using playful banter. And for a woman who has crossed her arms around her chest and is not even making eye contact with anyone then she is trying to be alone but even then you can try by start talking about how much you hate being at the crowded place and try to bond on all the things you hate in common and the ease your way in playful banter. Sometimes when you are nervous then just take a look at women’s clothing and her body language because these are the things that are dead giveaway whether a woman would like to be approached and possibly be seduced or like to be left alone.
Once you have started talking to the woman and you know what type of woman she is then you must ease your way into harmless banter because this is the place where you can make her feel relaxed and safe as women are more likely to be successfully seduced if they feel safe and relaxed around you. Harmless banter is to playfully tease her about something but remember never to tease her about something that is important to her as our intention is to make her feel comfortable rather than getting into an argument. Once she reciprocates the teasing then you know that she trust you enough to take a hit as well.
TAKE A HIT
Taking a hit means to handling banter or a little bit teasing from the opposite sex quite naturally. Well, if you are going to tease her then she is going to tease you back as is human instinct to push back but when seducing women you must know how to handle these kind of hazing so it doesn’t come off as rude or hurtful. Remember no one likes a guy who would make fun of everyone and if someone dares made fun of him then he gets ticked off. The best way to handle the situation is to laugh at yourself with her because she did say something funny, didn’t she? A person who can laugh at himself and can make it fun to be around him is more likely to succeed at seducing women then the one who is full of himself and can’t take a hit.
STAY IN CONTROL
Staying in control basically tells you not to overdo it because overdoing something just makes it annoying and annoying doesn’t play well with seduction. Sometimes when you are telling something so funny that you can’t stop laughing about it but you want to tell the story so you do it while laughing your ass off but in the end no matter how funny the story was your friends did not enjoy it as much as you did because you couldn’t stop laughing which made the story less funny and made you more annoying and so goes the example of not overdoing something. And secondly when someone or the woman is teasing you or just trying to annoy you while you are trying to seduce a woman then you need to maintain your calm and try to change the subject or laugh it up.
Once the flirting has begun and the playful banters are exchanged then you can move along to make it personal and try to connect emotionally with her as it is required for successful seduction. You can start by calling her by her first name and then take it from there. The best way is to smile at her make proper eye contact and when talking try playfully calling her by first name like say, “that’s hilarious, Sarah” or try something like that. Sometimes a casual physical contact not by intent and not on sensitive places can also create an emotional bond like touching her on the hand by mistake while moving yours or while handing her the drinks or anything small and only lasting for a fraction of seconds that she doesn’t even notice and even if she does, she doesn’t say anything about it and see if she reciprocates the same.
SPICE IT UP
Even in this 21st century some people are so shy when talking about sex that they make others around them very uncomfortable. But when trying to seduce a woman with words then you need to be able to talk about sex casually because if you are shy about it or you get weird about it then no woman is going to talk or even would want to have sex with you. See, the basic thing is if a woman can talk about sex with you then she is definitely thinking about sex and then all that remain is the suggestion of having sex with you.
So if you can make her feel comfortable for the first two things then she is definitely going to get comfortable with the idea of you two doing it and once that picture enters her mind than it’s just the matter of time. If the flirting and playful banter has worked its charm properly then you would not have any problems in spicing it up and if the emotional bond is secured then all you have to do is take a leap and go that 90% for the kiss and see if she comes the 10%. Just don’t make it weird, start by sending her the signal that you are thinking about it by talking about her lips like “Your lipstick looks great” just something that tells her that you noticed her lips and then take it from there.
KEEP IT MYSTERIOUS
Keeping it mysterious is when the seduction is working, I mean, if she didn’t stopped you from kissing her and I don’t know maybe even kissed you back a little bit then at least you got to make out with her and then if you want, you can well make out with her a little bit or make a suggestion to take it somewhere private like your place or hers maybe. See, sometimes if the seduction has worked perfectly and she is kissing you back then you wouldn’t have to ask, she will. But if that doesn’t happen than just ask naturally like “Want to go somewhere private, like say my place?”
If everything works in your favor then you are in for a treat but that is not always the case sometimes you luck out. As it is told “Seduction is a numbers game; some days you win; other days you lose; but there is always the next day.” And in the end I would just like to wish you luck and say happy hunting.